Man, I’m gonna take a second to appreciate this complex question. With the Myers Briggs typology, it’s already really difficult to type yourself correctly.. doing it successfully for others is even harder. It took me a full day before I was certain that I am INFJ with a strong Fi-dominant function that sometimes makes me appear like a different type. The function theory is very important when understanding the Myers Briggs typology – the sequence of the functions in order of dominance helps determine the type you are. You can read more about the function theory here. In my attempt to type the boys, I’ve looked at several descriptions of the types.. I’m relatively certain about Dylan’s right now, but not at all so sure about Eric’s. I have included two links at the end of each description: one to a short summary, the other to the way these types are as children. (It’s the children-description that won me over to thinking Eric may very well be this type, so it’s definitely worth the read!)
For Dylan, I’m tentatively going to go with INFP. (Function typology is Fi-Ne-Si-Te.) INFP personalities are usually perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy. Idealism is the banner of INFP personalitiesāand they are proud of it. Unfortunately, it also means that INFPs can often feel misunderstood and isolated as they are relatively rare. Unless an INFP finds an appreciation for his or her uniqueness and personal values, he or she may feel like an odd person out. INFPs can easily speak in metaphors and parables, and they also have an amazing gift of creating and interpreting symbols; for this reason, INFPs often find it natural to write and enjoy poetry. INFPs may also often retreat into their āhermitā state (this personality type can easily switch between the āactiveā and āhermitā states), withdrawing from the world and getting lost in their deep thoughts. They tend to rely on themselves for direction and are reticent to ask others for help. They would rather do things themselves, to make sure they are done properly. As young adults, INFPs may have some difficulty finding the ideal career and the ideal mate, in part because of that very word ‘ideal’. They have a vision in mind of what they want, yet reality may not follow suit. The INFP leadership style is subtle, gentle, indirect, and inclusive of others. INFPs do not confront people head-on, but rather work with them and through them to get the job done. Their style is not an aggressive one but is highly persistent; only reluctantly do INFPs assume leadership roles. [x] [x]
For Eric, I’m very tentatively going to go with INTP. (Function typology is Ti-Ne-Si-Fe.) The most important and characteristically developed part of an INTP of any age is a keen sense of logic and fairness. They are also creative and original thinkers, able to see possibilities and patterns all around them. INTP personalities are usually very shy and reluctant when it comes to meeting other people. They are very internal people and require lots of time and space to think things through and understand the world around them. However, INTPs can also be very friendly and confident when they interact with people they know well or talk about things that interest them. INTPs are flexible and relaxed in nearly all situations, except when their beliefs or logical conclusions are being criticized. In those cases, the INTP is likely to become very defensive and argue tirelessly. INTPs do not play social games and see no point in sugarcoating their words. They will clearly state their opinion and expect others to return the favor. INTPs tend to be open-minded and willing to accept ideas different from their own, provided that they are supported by facts and logic. INTP personalities are usually proud of their extensive knowledge and reasoning abilities, but they may get easily frustrated trying to describe their thoughts other people. They may be condescending. Many times they do participate in very scary behavior and can sometimes even be prompted to do things on a dare. Caution is not the hallmark of INTPs, unless it is in the emotional area. INTPs are so naturally skeptical of authority that they may find themselves in trouble for talking back to adults, pushing limits, and arguing ā often quite persuasively ā against what they find to be unfair or ridiculous rules. [x] [x]